1. This is just personal opinion , please read w an open mind.
2. I am not referring to anyone particular but it is based on personal experienceS, so there you go.
3. Sorry in advance, incase :p
Now let me get this out..
I COULD NEVER COMPREHEND GUYS WHO REFUSE TO PICK UP PHONES WHEN THEY'RE W THEIR RESPECTIVE GIRLFRIENDS.
There is a thin line that separates between respecting your gf- table ethics (no phone during dinner and stuffs? ) and being purely scared that she'll throw tantrums over a silly phone call.
One example :
Me : *calling*
Him : *rejectcall*
Thousands of hours later...
Him : Hey Ciya sorry what's up? Sorry I was with my girlfriend. I can't pick up or she'll be mad .
DUDE, IT'S NOT LIKE I'D GO "hey honeyboo smoochykins cuppycakes gumdrops I mish you shooo". -.-
GOD, I just need to call and see whether you can email and scan me the letter that was passed to you so I can get my job done freakin ealier. (In the case whereby the guy is a collegue )
Of course the letter thing could be any other case but you see my point ??? Of course I'd call you due to a specific reason and the specific reason could be really important . -,-
another example :
Him : HI CIYA HOW ARE YOUUU? LAMA TAK DENGAR CERITA.
Me : *not replying due to busy-ness*
Him : -15minuteslater- Hey Ciya please please please don't contact me over the next few hours cause I'm going out w my girl. She'd kill me!
Me : ?? :S *wasnt even planning to reply and still not replying *
Him : Ciyaa? REPLY PLEASE. TAU TAU TAU do not contact me .
Me : *starting to get annoyed but still not replying *
Him : *call ciya to no avail*. CIYA WHERE ARE YOU ? PLEASE REPLY THIS IS IMPORTANT. i need to know that you understand.
OH MY GAWD. shut up already. I wasn't and still not planning on contacting you pun ? :S Still your reason is so so annoying! hahaha
Note to guys : THAT IS NOT LOVE. That is plain .... I don't know. Unnecessary. If you are really planning on sticking to what your girlfriend wants , then for real, stop any contact whatsoever with any female species whatsoever. If you feel that is impossible, TALK TO HER ABOUT IT. Don't do it behind her back and struggles to hide it infront of her. That's just plain..messed up. You are allowed to talk to female ya know ? Talking is not cheating. ESPECIALLY when it's work 0,0
Note of girls : Can you please stop being so clingy ? Are you planning on being like this forever and ever ? You do realize it's impossible to stop him from meeting the opposite sex yea ? Don't you rather know who he's working and being frieends with rather than having him to constantly hide it from you ? COME ON. It's not loyalty when you cage him . It's loyalty when you let him be free and trust he'll stay .