Wednesday 16 January 2013

The Bad guy.

Why is it that it's always always okay if someone does a mistake

But.

When I do the same mistake, it's likeTHE WORST POSSIBLE MISTAKE ANYONE COULD EVER DO AND IT AUTOMATICALLY DEFINES ME AS A CARELESS, BAD, SILLY GIRL.


..its not fair.

Tuesday 15 January 2013

Listen, listen, listen, listen, listen, listen

My personal opinion?


1. Well, I don't think the problem is what Savani said. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Malaysia is a diplomatic country after all.


2 If you considered yourself as this educated spokesperson , you should listen first to what she has to say, and answer in the proper way, there are manners in answering questions too you know?

3. You are there to shed a light on the issue. To explain . Not to win an argument by raising your voice and giving nonsence answers. IF she is wrong, help her understand. In what way do you thing humiliating will help? This was beyond obvious that you were so anxious in defending your ego and debating for the sake of well..winning.

Listen, listen, listen, listen, listen, listen

My personal opinion?


1. Well, I don't think the problem is what Savani said. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Malaysia is a diplomatic country after all.


2 If you considered yourself as this educated spokesperson , you should listen first to what she has to say, and answer in the proper way, there are manners in answering questions too you know?

3. You are there to shed a light on the issue. To explain . Not to win an argument by raising your voice and giving nonsence answers. IF she is wrong, help her understand. In what way do you thing humiliating will help? This was beyond obvious that you were so anxious in defending your ego and debating for the sake of well..winning.

Monday 14 January 2013

Love or Obsessed

First and foremost, there are a few things I need to made clear :

1. This is just personal opinion , please read w an open mind.
2. I am not referring to anyone particular but it is based on personal experienceS,  so there you go.
3. Sorry in advance, incase :p


Now let me get this out..
*inhales deeply*


I COULD NEVER COMPREHEND GUYS WHO REFUSE TO PICK UP PHONES WHEN THEY'RE W THEIR RESPECTIVE GIRLFRIENDS.

Now, Now,
There is a thin line that separates between respecting your gf- table ethics (no phone during dinner and stuffs? ) and being purely scared that she'll throw tantrums over a silly phone call.

One example : 

Me  : *calling*
Him : *rejectcall*

Thousands of hours later...

Him : Hey Ciya sorry what's up? Sorry I was with my girlfriend. I can't pick up or she'll be mad .

REALITY CHECK

DUDE, IT'S NOT LIKE I'D GO "hey honeyboo smoochykins cuppycakes gumdrops I mish you shooo". -.-
GOD, I just need to call and see whether you can email and scan me the letter that was passed to you so I can get my job done freakin ealier. (In the case whereby the guy is a collegue )


Of course the letter thing could be any other case but you see my point ??? Of course I'd call you due to a specific reason and the specific reason could be really important . -,-

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another example :

Him : HI CIYA HOW ARE YOUUU?  LAMA TAK DENGAR CERITA.
Me  : *not replying due to busy-ness*
Him : -15minuteslater- Hey Ciya please please please don't contact me over the next few hours cause I'm  going out w my girl. She'd kill me! 

Me :  ?? :S *wasnt even planning to reply and still not replying *
Him : Ciyaa? REPLY PLEASE. TAU TAU TAU do not contact me .
Me : *starting to get annoyed but still not replying *
Him : *call ciya to no avail*. CIYA WHERE ARE YOU ? PLEASE REPLY THIS IS IMPORTANT. i need to know that you understand. 

REALITY CHECK

OH MY GAWD. shut up already. I wasn't and still not planning on contacting you pun ? :S Still your reason is so so annoying! hahaha 



Note to guys : THAT IS NOT LOVE. That is plain .... I don't know. Unnecessary. If you are really planning on sticking to what your girlfriend wants , then for real, stop any contact whatsoever with any female species whatsoever. If you feel that is impossible, TALK TO HER ABOUT IT. Don't do it behind her back and struggles to hide it infront of her. That's just plain..messed up. You are allowed to talk to female ya know ? Talking is not cheating. ESPECIALLY when it's work 0,0

Note of girls : Can you please stop being so clingy ? Are you planning on being like this forever and ever ? You do realize it's impossible to stop him from meeting the opposite sex yea ? Don't you rather know who he's working and being frieends with rather than having him to constantly hide it from you ? COME ON. It's not loyalty when you cage him . It's loyalty when you let him be free and trust he'll stay .

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